While a relationship can be a delicate thing that requires effort to maintain, it can also be something that provides ongoing value. A good relationship can be long lasting despite many trials.
Building an effective and lasting relationship is important for many reasons. In a group setting, the well being of the group depends on how effective and healthy the relationships in the group are.
Conversely, an ineffective group can be frustrating. Sacrificing your personal life to accomplish things in a group setting can damage relationships. Then people who depend on the group suffer as well.
Healthy relationships require all parties to work and contribute their share to achieve a common goal. Those types of relationship benefit society as a whole. Each member works for the common good, and that can only be achieved with effective and relationships.
So how do you create those relationships?
First, understanding the other parties’ feelings and position can help. The easiest way to do that is to ask and then listen to what they say. Engaged listening tells the other person they’re important to you.
Second, you have to be willing to openly express your own thoughts and feelings as well. Assuming the other party knows you how feel is not a good idea.
Third, respect is necessary. You can demonstrate that respect through your active listening and by sincerely attempting to understand the other person’s position. You can also affirm the other person’s efforts.
Fourth, tackle problems directly when they arise. Differences will arise, but working towards a win-win solution for both parties is extremely important.
Fifth, informal discussions are conducive to building good relationships. They help uncover issues more comfortably and help people think clearly.
By following these guidelines, you can help foster effective and lasting relationships. Address issues and problems quickly, and always work on improving and maintaining the relationships.